What girls like about men ?

[wanzizou]

hey guys...i want ur opinion about this...

what girls like about men...?
and how to know if this is the girl we been searching for ?

is it true, girls like men who is always joking and trying to be funny all the time ?

and how to tackle a girls in very unique ways ?.....

thanks guys

[Rodrigo]

I don't think a formula exists, unless you treat with very predictable women.

[Nel]

Originally Posted by wanzizou

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is it true, girls like men who is always joking and trying to be funny all the time ?

sure, unless you are making fun of how weird their tits look

[in2dust21571]

<i>what do woman like about men?</i>
All woman basically work the same sorta.
In all honesty: woman like men who know what they want in life and will get it. They want to know that the man can survive in the world alone without having their parents help them. Woman want to feel protected. They want a good looking man even though they say personality is what counts. They want attention and they want you to not give it to them all the time. You have to ignore the crap out of them because if you give them attention woman are stupid enough to get bored of you because you than become dull. They want to be interested all the time. Occasionally bring up something new and positive(flower, rock of where you were at with a story tied to it, a memory of your past, work story). Everyday give her your undivided attention until she gets tired of talking. Than ignore her the rest because than she will get tired of talking to you. They get tired because they run out of thoughts and they need space to refresh. If you talk to much you're going to tire her out and she will be frusterated with you because if she's dumb she will not know why other than you're annoying because she doesn't understand that she has reached the end of her thought processing for the day. Don't share who you are with them completely ever because thats what they want. If you give that to them what they want they will get bored with you. Once they get bored of you they look for interesting things. That means you are no longer interesting but boring and you are in the red zone. The red zone is bad. They will dump you if they lose interest. You have to keep their interest, by keeping pieces of yourself mysterious. If you do that they will keep trying to guess what the mystery is about you. If they don't know what that mystery is they will keep trying to find out and staying interested. The mystery could be a simple as I am not going to tell you about this particular thing in my life because I don't think it's time yet. You can keep directing their attention from that mystery until they finally get it out of you because they are impatient little brats that can't wait on anything. So than you keep saving things and keep bring in interesting new things for them to explore and talk about. If she's smart and your not as bright as her you will bore her. If she's dumb and your smart she will be astonished if you use the word radiant. From my perspective relationships are stupid. People get into them because they want someone to develop off of. They want to share with others because they don't want to be alone. They want to feel like they are with someone and that someone understands them. The bad thing about relationships is that you can start one and fall in love with someone who doesn't feel the same way. If they don't feel the same way than your heart gets broken and you realized that that person was stupid for dumping you. You learn to justify it to move on and feel better about yourself because otherwise you are going to feel like crap. Trust me on that one. People can make you feel like the biggest loser on the planet by saying I don't want to be with you especially if you love them. You want to feel loved by them because you want to feel that someone else understands you, but reality is no one really understands you but yourself. You only think they understand you. Some people mentally develop faster than others. Communication is important about certain issues. Space, understanding, anger etc.

IMPORTANT: If you want a relationship to last. Do not try to control them. Don't tell them that you love them even if you do. Don't give them all the attention they want from you. Don't be completely open to them about everything. Don't be honest. Give them room to explore no matter how hard it hurts. They are going to do it anyways and you can't stop someone from their curiosities. Be jealous, but don't put restrictions on them. Basically be jealous but don't be honest and tell them that you are jealous otherwise they are going to think that you are telling them not to do something when you are really just being honest with them. Don't give opinions or say anything about their friends, because she will take it as criticism and judgements even when you're just being honest about what you think you saw and you know that it's only your perception. Opinonating about her friends might insult her because you're basically telling her that you think her friends suck and that she doesn't know how to choose the right friends for her.


THE MOST IMPORTANT OF ALL: DO NOT LET HER TRY TO CONTROL YOUR LIFE AND DO NOT DO THE SAME TO HERS. Be yourself and if you can't than don't be with her at all. If she can't be herself with you than don't get into the relationship. Basically if you are suffering from not being able to be who you are dump her and move on. Basically if you feel you can't opinonate about her friends or say anything in front of her she is not worth your time because real relationships help your grow they are not barriers. In order to find a real relationships you have to know who you are. Chances in this world you will never know because according to evolution you will never stay the same. To me that means find someone who will be in an open relationship with you. Meaning you can go out into the world and do whatever you want but you know that you can go back to that person and talk to them and share with them whatever you like without having to feel restrain and the same goes for them. If you can't find that with someone than sorry that's life! Relationships are hard and if you want to put your energy into one keep doing it. If you don't than you don't have to.


<i>and how to know if this is the girl we been searching for ?</i>
I don't know who "we" is but if you made a type I will tell you that you will never know because you don't know a freaking thing in this life. What I type means nothing to you and nothing to me. If you don't want to take what I type it means nothing to you. I typed what I typed out of false experience and they mean nothing to me. You don't know anything at all, except that you need food, water, excretion and sleep to live.

<i>is it true, girls like men who is always joking and trying to be funny all the time ?</i>
I don't know. I like woman who are honest, smart, and alive. I think woman like men who joke and are trying to be funny because those men give the false pretense of being nice and friendly. Being friendly usually for male means that they are social and bond with other people. Social people survive because they are needed by everyone else to function as some sort of figure or character. Social people evolve off eachother by interacting with eachother. People who joke or are funny generally have friends because they make others laugh and help others release their stress and tension.

<i>and how to tackle a girls in very unique ways ?..... </i>
If you like her drop hints or ask her out. I don't know exactly how to help you on this one because I myself don't know. I watch others and I've seen other people just go up and start a conversation. What do you say? I don't know. Say something and maybe you might talk. If you don't tell her that she's fcking boring and walk away and don't look twice at her. I honestly think if you do that to her she will go after you unless she is shy. If she is shy you're just going to hurt her feelings and than she is probably going to shut down and say fck relationships. Or she might just say fck this mother effer I he's not worth my time. It all depends on the person. For me I let the girls tackle me if they really want me because I am too shy to go up to girls. Not only that but I don't go out so hahahahaha. But fck you can always email them. Good luck!

[The Welshman]

Women want cock and cash.

[Nikki]

Originally Posted by The Welshman

Women want cock and cash.

Why else do you think I'm e-chasing you?

Nah, what I look for in a guy is someone who I gel with personality-wise and sexually, too. I can't count the times I've written on here what I like in a guy, and I can't be bothered typing it out again, maybe later.

[Nel]

Originally Posted by in2dust21571

<i>what do woman like about men?</i>
All woman basically work the same sorta.
In all honesty: woman like men who know what they want in life and will get it. They want to know that the man can survive in the world alone without having their parents help them. Woman want to feel protected. They want a good looking man even though they say personality is what counts. They want attention and they want you to not give it to them all the time. You have to ignore the crap out of them because if you give them attention woman are stupid enough to get bored of you because you than become dull. They want to be interested all the time. Occasionally bring up something new and positive(flower, rock of where you were at with a story tied to it, a memory of your past, work story). Everyday give her your undivided attention until she gets tired of talking. Than ignore her the rest because than she will get tired of talking to you. They get tired because they run out of thoughts and they need space to refresh. If you talk to much you're going to tire her out and she will be frusterated with you because if she's dumb she will not know why other than you're annoying because she doesn't understand that she has reached the end of her thought processing for the day. Don't share who you are with them completely ever because thats what they want. If you give that to them what they want they will get bored with you. Once they get bored of you they look for interesting things. That means you are no longer interesting but boring and you are in the red zone. The red zone is bad. They will dump you if they lose interest. You have to keep their interest, by keeping pieces of yourself mysterious. If you do that they will keep trying to guess what the mystery is about you. If they don't know what that mystery is they will keep trying to find out and staying interested. The mystery could be a simple as I am not going to tell you about this particular thing in my life because I don't think it's time yet. You can keep directing their attention from that mystery until they finally get it out of you because they are impatient little brats that can't wait on anything. So than you keep saving things and keep bring in interesting new things for them to explore and talk about. If she's smart and your not as bright as her you will bore her. If she's dumb and your smart she will be astonished if you use the word radiant. From my perspective relationships are stupid. People get into them because they want someone to develop off of. They want to share with others because they don't want to be alone. They want to feel like they are with someone and that someone understands them. The bad thing about relationships is that you can start one and fall in love with someone who doesn't feel the same way. If they don't feel the same way than your heart gets broken and you realised that that person was stupid for dumping you. You learn to justify it to move on and feel better about yourself because otherwise you are going to feel like crap. Trust me on that one. People can make you feel like the biggest loser on the planet by saying I don't want to be with you especially if you love them. You want to feel loved by them because you want to feel that someone else understands you, but reality is no one really understands you but yourself. You only think they understand you. Some people mentally develop faster than others. Communication is important about certain issues. Space, understanding, anger etc.

IMPORTANT: If you want a relationship to last. Do not try to control them. Don't tell them that you love them even if you do. Don't give them all the attention they want from you. Don't be completely open to them about everything. Don't be honest. Give them room to explore no matter how hard it hurts. They are going to do it anyways and you can't stop someone from their curiosities. Be jealous, but don't put restrictions on them. Basically be jealous but don't be honest and tell them that you are jealous otherwise they are going to think that you are telling them not to do something when you are really just being honest with them. Don't give opinions or say anything about their friends, because she will take it as criticism and judgements even when you're just being honest about what you think you saw and you know that it's only your perception. Opinonating about her friends might insult her because you're basically telling her that you think her friends suck and that she doesn't know how to choose the right friends for her.


THE MOST IMPORTANT OF ALL: DO NOT LET HER TRY TO CONTROL YOUR LIFE AND DO NOT DO THE SAME TO HERS. Be yourself and if you can't than don't be with her at all. If she can't be herself with you than don't get into the relationship. Basically if you are suffering from not being able to be who you are dump her and move on. Basically if you feel you can't opinonate about her friends or say anything in front of her she is not worth your time because real relationships help your grow they are not barriers. In order to find a real relationships you have to know who you are. Chances in this world you will never know because according to evolution you will never stay the same. To me that means find someone who will be in an open relationship with you. Meaning you can go out into the world and do whatever you want but you know that you can go back to that person and talk to them and share with them whatever you like without having to feel restrain and the same goes for them. If you can't find that with someone than sorry that's life! Relationships are hard and if you want to put your energy into one keep doing it. If you don't than you don't have to.


<i>and how to know if this is the girl we been searching for ?</i>
I don't know who "we" is but if you made a type I will tell you that you will never know because you don't know a freaking thing in this life. What I type means nothing to you and nothing to me. If you don't want to take what I type it means nothing to you. I typed what I typed out of false experience and they mean nothing to me. You don't know anything at all, except that you need food, water, excretion and sleep to live.

<i>is it true, girls like men who is always joking and trying to be funny all the time ?</i>
I don't know. I like woman who are honest, smart, and alive. I think woman like men who joke and are trying to be funny because those men give the false pretense of being nice and friendly. Being friendly usually for male means that they are social and bond with other people. Social people survive because they are needed by everyone else to function as some sort of figure or character. Social people evolve off eachother by interacting with eachother. People who joke or are funny generally have friends because they make others laugh and help others release their stress and tension.

<i>and how to tackle a girls in very unique ways ?..... </i>
If you like her drop hints or ask her out. I don't know exactly how to help you on this one because I myself don't know. I watch others and I've seen other people just go up and start a conversation. What do you say? I don't know. Say something and maybe you might talk. If you don't tell her that she's fcking boring and walk away and don't look twice at her. I honestly think if you do that to her she will go after you unless she is shy. If she is shy you're just going to hurt her feelings and than she is probably going to shut down and say fck relationships. Or she might just say fck this mother effer I he's not worth my time. It all depends on the person. For me I let the girls tackle me if they really want me because I am too shy to go up to girls. Not only that but I don't go out so hahahahaha. But fck you can always email them. Good luck!

girls don't like guys who talk too much

[nellified]

!! i was just pondering the same thing, lol

well if girls to like funny, nice guys, i may actually have a chance...

[Rodrigo]

Originally Posted by nellified

well if girls to like funny, nice guys, i may actually have a chance...

No, but REALLY funny, nice guys.

[nellified]

crap, i think i fall in the slightly really funny, nice guy category... shucks